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{"id":601741295669,"title":"Hero: Becoming The Man She Desires","handle":"hero-becoming-the-man-she-desires","description":"\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan style=\"color: #990000;\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003eBULK PRICING AVAILABLE ON THIS ITEM\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFrom best-selling author Fred Stoeker, along with his son Jasen, come the straightforward insights and real-life examples necessary to help you stay pure while dating. Dating brings its own unique pressures to a man’s sexual purity, and Jasen shares the strategies he used to maintain his own sexual purity from junior high through high school and college, all the way to the wedding altar. As a bonus, his wife, Rose, shares how much it means to a woman to date a man who heroically defends her honor, so this book is for you women, too.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv id=\"cat_content\"\u003e\n\u003cp align=\"left\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style3\"\u003eNEW!\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style1\"\u003e HERO LEADER \u0026amp; STUDENT GUIDES NOW AVAILABLE\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eClick on the links below to download the FREE leader and student guides available for Hero, the latest book by Fred Stoeker. This seven-week study can forever change the course of young men!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0016\/9482\/6549\/files\/Hero_LeadersGuide.pdf?v=1610997972\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eLeader's Guide\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0016\/9482\/6549\/files\/Hero_StudentsGuide.pdf?v=1610998021%20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eStudent's Guide\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\n\u003ch2 class=\"style1\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eReviews\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp align=\"left\"\u003e“Will the real men please stand up? These two brothers of mine, father and son, are standing up—in purity, courage and God-honoring strength. I am proud to know them! Read their story and be encouraged by encountering these modern day 'Heroes'.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eRebecca St. James, singer, songwriter, musician\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv id=\"cat_content\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“When Fred Stoeker broke the chain of sexual sin that was passed down from his own father, he set in place the first link in the chain of Godliness for his own family legacy. As you read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, you will see how the next link in the chain of Stoeker men, Jasen, has claimed moral purity as his own, and is now firmly entrenched in this new course. I know Fred personally. I know Jasen. And this story is real.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eoffers hope to all who have been ensnared in sexual sin, that they, too, can break their own chains and establish new links of sexual purity in their own lives.\u003cem\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eoffers hope to all who long to avoid sexual sin while dating, who’re vigilant to guard their girlfriend’s heart.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003eoffers hope to all of us as fathers and grandfathers, that we can not only be forgiven, but we can also set a high bar of honor for our children and grandchildren and speak truth boldly into their chests. Fred and Jasen are indeed heroes in our time. And through God’s grace, you can be too!\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eDr. Gary Rosberg, founder and CEO, America’s Family Coaches, author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eSecrets to a Lasting Love,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/i\u003eand co-founder with wife, Barb, of TheGreatMarriageExperience.com\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis my favorite of Fred Stoeker’s books by far, as it is a voice of truth in a culture filled with lies, and its keen biblical insights and practical applications are exactly what we need today. I can’t stop going through it again and again!\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAs a youth evangelist, I have read many books on dating, but\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eeasily tops them all. It addresses the current cultural situation in a straight-forward manner with the appropriate tact, while at the same time it provides a trumpet call of hope. If you’re a pastor, youth director or student, I urge you to read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e. Use the book in your private growth moments with God. Start small groups and build peer mentoring models around it. Teach it in your school assemblies and youth services.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003eis truly curriculum-worthy work.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egives Fred Stoeker a strategic role in the Kingdom right now, and Jasen and Rose have extremely relevant voices today, both inside and outside the church walls! Fred and Jasen, thanks for being the kind of men many of us want to be. ”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eHeath Adamson, youth evangelist, The Seven Project\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis not just another book about “dating” or \"purity\". As I finished\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, I came to the realization that this book is truly a message from God's heart to ours, if we would only listen. I couldn't put it down. I was deeply challenged and inspired by Jasen’s words, but most importantly, I felt hopeful! I know now that my three boys don't have to follow in the footsteps of their earthly father, who has made some mistakes along the way. They can instead follow in those of their heavenly Father, who will direct them into freedom and holiness, and eventually into love in one of its purest forms…the love between a husband and a wife.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJasen walked this out practically in his life all the way to the altar, even in this sensual day, even when others didn’t understand, and that was nothing short of God’s blessing and honor upon an obedient heart. In the end,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003epoints to our creator as the true\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, and reminds us of the words Jesus spoke at the Sermon on the Mount. \"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God\"!\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egave me a genuine taste of the divine that rests in these words. You’ll get your own taste as you get into\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, and I know you'll be changed forever.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eMichael O’Brien, former lead singer of Newsong\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“God has sounded the battle cry for the hearts of men. Do you hear it? Somewhere within your heart it’s there, and it’s calling you to do hard things for him, for yourself, your wife, or your future wife. Will you continue to live a life of mediocrity and baseline expectations in your relationships, or will you experience the thrill and power of what it means to be a real man? She needs a hero. In\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, Fred and Jasen challenge you to become the hero she needs you to be. ”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eMatt Markins, director of the D6 Conference\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“In a culture nearly devoid of genuine heroes, I’ve had the honor to witness a few. Fred and Jason Stoeker are such men. God has anointed Fred and Jason to train up men to be their woman’s hero, to win their hearts, to be kind in their godly acts of love, to use inviting, soft-spoken words like a song to his woman’s soul, igniting the passion they’ve both longed for. Every man walking planet earth needs to read and apply the biblical lessons in this book. The next generation needs to witness these godly fathers and husbands, these heroes in action. Become your wife’s hero, your child’s hero, God’s hero, and the world will become a better place.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eClay Allen, pastor, president, and founder of AVENUE Resource and author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eOperation Destiny\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“Inspiring. Captivating. Thoroughly biblical. With a compelling sense of urgency, Fred and Jasen Stoeker cry out to the men and women of our generation and challenge them to joy-filled holiness. Fred and Jasen will get in your face, call you out of the ditches of compromise, and into a battle—a battle that will define the course of your life. Reading about Jasen and Rose’s dating and engagement gives practical, proven direction to couples while simultaneously equips parents to raise their kids in purity. May their God-centered romance play out again and again in the lives of those who hold this book in their hands and may He use it to purify His bride, the church, for His glory and our joy.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003ePaul Sabino, family pastor, Cornerstone Church, Ames, Iowa\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“I love\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e! As I began to read this thought-provoking book, tears filled my eyes and hope captivated my soul as a prevailing theme surfaced in my heart and mind—“what a man does in private, so his son will do publicly.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis generation has been jolted and saturated with reality television—a generation now doing publicly what many of their parents only did privately for years. In a similar way,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003edelivers some jarring “reality reading,” but with a twist, as Fred’s private quest for purity has led to his son’s very public journey of heroism.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis book provides living proof that whatever the enemy means for harm, God can turn around and use for good. Anyone reading through these pages will be thoroughly challenged to become a true hero to another who is really watching …Jesus Christ. .”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eJames A. Montera, president of Mercy Seat Ministries Midwest, Inc. and founder of Refuge School of Ministry\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","published_at":"2018-04-08T00:17:26-05:00","created_at":"2018-04-08T00:19:06-05:00","vendor":"Fred Stoeker","type":"Books","tags":["bulk","Other","single men"],"price":1160,"price_min":1160,"price_max":46500,"available":true,"price_varies":true,"compare_at_price":1599,"compare_at_price_min":1599,"compare_at_price_max":79950,"compare_at_price_varies":true,"variants":[{"id":7553006338101,"title":"Autographed Paperback","option1":"Autographed Paperback","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":false,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Hero: Becoming The Man She Desires - Autographed Paperback","public_title":"Autographed Paperback","options":["Autographed Paperback"],"price":1160,"weight":275,"compare_at_price":1599,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"978-1-4000-7109-8","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},{"id":7638883631157,"title":"COMBO: With \"Every Young Man's Battle\" and \"Tactics\"","option1":"COMBO: With \"Every Young Man's Battle\" and \"Tactics\"","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":false,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Hero: Becoming The Man She Desires - 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Dating brings its own unique pressures to a man’s sexual purity, and Jasen shares the strategies he used to maintain his own sexual purity from junior high through high school and college, all the way to the wedding altar. As a bonus, his wife, Rose, shares how much it means to a woman to date a man who heroically defends her honor, so this book is for you women, too.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv id=\"cat_content\"\u003e\n\u003cp align=\"left\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style3\"\u003eNEW!\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style1\"\u003e HERO LEADER \u0026amp; STUDENT GUIDES NOW AVAILABLE\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eClick on the links below to download the FREE leader and student guides available for Hero, the latest book by Fred Stoeker. This seven-week study can forever change the course of young men!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0016\/9482\/6549\/files\/Hero_LeadersGuide.pdf?v=1610997972\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eLeader's Guide\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0016\/9482\/6549\/files\/Hero_StudentsGuide.pdf?v=1610998021%20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eStudent's Guide\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\n\u003ch2 class=\"style1\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eReviews\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp align=\"left\"\u003e“Will the real men please stand up? These two brothers of mine, father and son, are standing up—in purity, courage and God-honoring strength. I am proud to know them! Read their story and be encouraged by encountering these modern day 'Heroes'.\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eRebecca St. James, singer, songwriter, musician\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv id=\"cat_content\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“When Fred Stoeker broke the chain of sexual sin that was passed down from his own father, he set in place the first link in the chain of Godliness for his own family legacy. As you read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, you will see how the next link in the chain of Stoeker men, Jasen, has claimed moral purity as his own, and is now firmly entrenched in this new course. I know Fred personally. I know Jasen. And this story is real.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eoffers hope to all who have been ensnared in sexual sin, that they, too, can break their own chains and establish new links of sexual purity in their own lives.\u003cem\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eoffers hope to all who long to avoid sexual sin while dating, who’re vigilant to guard their girlfriend’s heart.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003eoffers hope to all of us as fathers and grandfathers, that we can not only be forgiven, but we can also set a high bar of honor for our children and grandchildren and speak truth boldly into their chests. Fred and Jasen are indeed heroes in our time. And through God’s grace, you can be too!\"\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eDr. Gary Rosberg, founder and CEO, America’s Family Coaches, author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eSecrets to a Lasting Love,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/i\u003eand co-founder with wife, Barb, of TheGreatMarriageExperience.com\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis my favorite of Fred Stoeker’s books by far, as it is a voice of truth in a culture filled with lies, and its keen biblical insights and practical applications are exactly what we need today. I can’t stop going through it again and again!\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAs a youth evangelist, I have read many books on dating, but\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eeasily tops them all. It addresses the current cultural situation in a straight-forward manner with the appropriate tact, while at the same time it provides a trumpet call of hope. If you’re a pastor, youth director or student, I urge you to read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e. Use the book in your private growth moments with God. Start small groups and build peer mentoring models around it. Teach it in your school assemblies and youth services.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003eis truly curriculum-worthy work.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egives Fred Stoeker a strategic role in the Kingdom right now, and Jasen and Rose have extremely relevant voices today, both inside and outside the church walls! Fred and Jasen, thanks for being the kind of men many of us want to be. ”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eHeath Adamson, youth evangelist, The Seven Project\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis not just another book about “dating” or \"purity\". As I finished\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, I came to the realization that this book is truly a message from God's heart to ours, if we would only listen. I couldn't put it down. I was deeply challenged and inspired by Jasen’s words, but most importantly, I felt hopeful! I know now that my three boys don't have to follow in the footsteps of their earthly father, who has made some mistakes along the way. They can instead follow in those of their heavenly Father, who will direct them into freedom and holiness, and eventually into love in one of its purest forms…the love between a husband and a wife.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJasen walked this out practically in his life all the way to the altar, even in this sensual day, even when others didn’t understand, and that was nothing short of God’s blessing and honor upon an obedient heart. In the end,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003epoints to our creator as the true\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, and reminds us of the words Jesus spoke at the Sermon on the Mount. \"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God\"!\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egave me a genuine taste of the divine that rests in these words. You’ll get your own taste as you get into\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, and I know you'll be changed forever.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eMichael O’Brien, former lead singer of Newsong\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“God has sounded the battle cry for the hearts of men. Do you hear it? Somewhere within your heart it’s there, and it’s calling you to do hard things for him, for yourself, your wife, or your future wife. Will you continue to live a life of mediocrity and baseline expectations in your relationships, or will you experience the thrill and power of what it means to be a real man? She needs a hero. In\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e, Fred and Jasen challenge you to become the hero she needs you to be. ”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eMatt Markins, director of the D6 Conference\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“In a culture nearly devoid of genuine heroes, I’ve had the honor to witness a few. Fred and Jason Stoeker are such men. God has anointed Fred and Jason to train up men to be their woman’s hero, to win their hearts, to be kind in their godly acts of love, to use inviting, soft-spoken words like a song to his woman’s soul, igniting the passion they’ve both longed for. Every man walking planet earth needs to read and apply the biblical lessons in this book. The next generation needs to witness these godly fathers and husbands, these heroes in action. Become your wife’s hero, your child’s hero, God’s hero, and the world will become a better place.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eClay Allen, pastor, president, and founder of AVENUE Resource and author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eOperation Destiny\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“Inspiring. Captivating. Thoroughly biblical. With a compelling sense of urgency, Fred and Jasen Stoeker cry out to the men and women of our generation and challenge them to joy-filled holiness. Fred and Jasen will get in your face, call you out of the ditches of compromise, and into a battle—a battle that will define the course of your life. Reading about Jasen and Rose’s dating and engagement gives practical, proven direction to couples while simultaneously equips parents to raise their kids in purity. May their God-centered romance play out again and again in the lives of those who hold this book in their hands and may He use it to purify His bride, the church, for His glory and our joy.”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003ePaul Sabino, family pastor, Cornerstone Church, Ames, Iowa\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e“I love\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e! As I began to read this thought-provoking book, tears filled my eyes and hope captivated my soul as a prevailing theme surfaced in my heart and mind—“what a man does in private, so his son will do publicly.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis generation has been jolted and saturated with reality television—a generation now doing publicly what many of their parents only did privately for years. In a similar way,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eHero\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003edelivers some jarring “reality reading,” but with a twist, as Fred’s private quest for purity has led to his son’s very public journey of heroism.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis book provides living proof that whatever the enemy means for harm, God can turn around and use for good. Anyone reading through these pages will be thoroughly challenged to become a true hero to another who is really watching …Jesus Christ. .”\u003cbr\u003e—\u003cb\u003eJames A. Montera, president of Mercy Seat Ministries Midwest, Inc. and founder of Refuge School of Ministry\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e"}
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{"id":601754730549,"title":"Tactics","handle":"tactics","description":"\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan style=\"color: #990000;\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003eBULK PRICING AVAILABLE ON THIS ITEM\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThe Ultimate Showdown Calls For the Ultimate Team. Jesus and you.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eby Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFamily \u0026amp; Relationships - Marriage; Religion - Christian Life; Family \u0026amp; Relationships\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWaterBrook Press | Trade Paperback | October 2004 | $13.99 | 1-57856-784-X\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb class=\"style1\"\u003eABOUT THIS BOOK\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e picks up from where the best-selling \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eEvery Young Man’s Battle\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e left off. If you still have kinks and chinks in your armor after reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eEYMB\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, this second book of Fred’s trilogy should remove them. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003ewill expand your understanding about the spiritual front of this battle for purity, and will teach you how to complete your victory by gaining a tighter intimacy with your Father in Heaven, and with Jesus Christ.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb class=\"style2\"\u003eSMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBy providing the free download of these study questions, I’m hoping to help you facilitate good, healthy discussions among your young men. Please visit \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ca href=\"http:\/\/www.winthiswarcd.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003ewinthiswarcd.com\u003c\/a\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. Once there, find discussion questions for both Tactics and Every Young Man’s Battle in our resources section. Check out my new CD \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eWin This War\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e while you are there.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eREVIEWS\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"I just finished reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e! Thank you so very much! This book is so much more powerful than your first book (\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003ca href=\"http:\/\/fredstoeker.com\/new\/book\/everyyoungmansbattle.shtml\"\u003eEvery Young Man’s Battle\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e). The one thing I learned that I cherish most is worshiping in song before praying—it really gives me a more rewarding conversation with our Lord when I pray. I learned so much about my physical and mental make up, too. Before, I thought I could control myself like I did when I quit smoking by carrying an open pack of cigarettes in my shirt pocket for six months until I realized I didn't need it anymore and threw it away. I have better strategies now after reading your book. I plan now on purchasing and distributing this book to a lot of guys I've talked to that have the same struggles I had.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"I just wanted to let you know that I am about three-quarters of the way through your new book \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. I grew up with little to no guidance from my father regarding sexual purity. I learned about sex through my friends, my girlfriends and on my own, and I struggled with masturbation from ages fifteen to twenty-four. I could not break the cycle until I threw myself before the Lord and, gratefully, I was miraculously delivered from that habit a short time before I met my wife (good timing, huh?). Trouble is that I have continued to have wandering eyes. I have read two of your previous books and maybe half-heartedly tried to bounce my eyes, even though I knew that my eyes were hindering my devotional time with the Lord. Since I have been reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, I have genuinely made an effort to not look at other women, and it has been easier than I thought it would be—I sure wish I’d have done so sooner. Old habits are hard to break, but you finally got my attention for real in this book. That part about being a “Peeping Tom” hit me right between the eyes. As for my time with the Lord, I am now following your example of how to praise and worship God from \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. You have taught me more about devotional time than anybody else that I know. Thanks.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"The book \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003eis messing me up. When I first picked it up to read it, I was on an airplane flying to Alaska. I began to cry, and I also found myself repenting for my generation. Then, after emailing you about the book, I received your email back to me today on my phone while I was at the city dump outside of town. I watched as men were looking through the garbage searching for anything of value, and I was amazed at what they were pulling out. It all smelled \u003c\/span\u003eso bad\u003cspan\u003e, but it didn't seem to bother them. It reminded me of our world. We search through trash looking for anything of worth or purpose, but in the end, all we often have is trash. On the other hand, there are also men who look through the mess looking for anything that can be restored. Thank you, Fred, for going through the trash searching for the men who have thrown their purpose, families, and lives away and providing them with a renewed hope of restoration, while also providing them with the tools to achieve a right relationship with their Heavenly Father. I just wonder how many times we break the heart of God with our lives? Too many to count? Thank you for putting yourself on the line for those who cannot fight for themselves. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e is a Godsend to me and to a generation!\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","published_at":"2018-04-08T00:35:06-05:00","created_at":"2018-04-08T00:40:52-05:00","vendor":"Living True Ministries","type":"Books","tags":["bulk","Other","single men"],"price":1100,"price_min":1100,"price_max":46500,"available":true,"price_varies":true,"compare_at_price":1899,"compare_at_price_min":1899,"compare_at_price_max":79950,"compare_at_price_varies":true,"variants":[{"id":7553127874613,"title":"Autographed Paperback","option1":"Autographed Paperback","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":false,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Tactics - Autographed Paperback","public_title":"Autographed Paperback","options":["Autographed Paperback"],"price":1100,"weight":352,"compare_at_price":1899,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},{"id":7638897360949,"title":"COMBO: With \"Every Young Man's Battle\" and \"Hero\"","option1":"COMBO: With \"Every Young Man's Battle\" and \"Hero\"","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":false,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Tactics - 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Jesus and you.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eby Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFamily \u0026amp; Relationships - Marriage; Religion - Christian Life; Family \u0026amp; Relationships\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWaterBrook Press | Trade Paperback | October 2004 | $13.99 | 1-57856-784-X\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb class=\"style1\"\u003eABOUT THIS BOOK\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e picks up from where the best-selling \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eEvery Young Man’s Battle\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e left off. If you still have kinks and chinks in your armor after reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eEYMB\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, this second book of Fred’s trilogy should remove them. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003ewill expand your understanding about the spiritual front of this battle for purity, and will teach you how to complete your victory by gaining a tighter intimacy with your Father in Heaven, and with Jesus Christ.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb class=\"style2\"\u003eSMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBy providing the free download of these study questions, I’m hoping to help you facilitate good, healthy discussions among your young men. Please visit \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ca href=\"http:\/\/www.winthiswarcd.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003ewinthiswarcd.com\u003c\/a\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. Once there, find discussion questions for both Tactics and Every Young Man’s Battle in our resources section. Check out my new CD \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eWin This War\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e while you are there.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eREVIEWS\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"I just finished reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e! Thank you so very much! This book is so much more powerful than your first book (\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003ca href=\"http:\/\/fredstoeker.com\/new\/book\/everyyoungmansbattle.shtml\"\u003eEvery Young Man’s Battle\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e). The one thing I learned that I cherish most is worshiping in song before praying—it really gives me a more rewarding conversation with our Lord when I pray. I learned so much about my physical and mental make up, too. Before, I thought I could control myself like I did when I quit smoking by carrying an open pack of cigarettes in my shirt pocket for six months until I realized I didn't need it anymore and threw it away. I have better strategies now after reading your book. I plan now on purchasing and distributing this book to a lot of guys I've talked to that have the same struggles I had.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"I just wanted to let you know that I am about three-quarters of the way through your new book \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. I grew up with little to no guidance from my father regarding sexual purity. I learned about sex through my friends, my girlfriends and on my own, and I struggled with masturbation from ages fifteen to twenty-four. I could not break the cycle until I threw myself before the Lord and, gratefully, I was miraculously delivered from that habit a short time before I met my wife (good timing, huh?). Trouble is that I have continued to have wandering eyes. I have read two of your previous books and maybe half-heartedly tried to bounce my eyes, even though I knew that my eyes were hindering my devotional time with the Lord. Since I have been reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, I have genuinely made an effort to not look at other women, and it has been easier than I thought it would be—I sure wish I’d have done so sooner. Old habits are hard to break, but you finally got my attention for real in this book. That part about being a “Peeping Tom” hit me right between the eyes. As for my time with the Lord, I am now following your example of how to praise and worship God from \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. You have taught me more about devotional time than anybody else that I know. Thanks.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"The book \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003eis messing me up. When I first picked it up to read it, I was on an airplane flying to Alaska. I began to cry, and I also found myself repenting for my generation. Then, after emailing you about the book, I received your email back to me today on my phone while I was at the city dump outside of town. I watched as men were looking through the garbage searching for anything of value, and I was amazed at what they were pulling out. It all smelled \u003c\/span\u003eso bad\u003cspan\u003e, but it didn't seem to bother them. It reminded me of our world. We search through trash looking for anything of worth or purpose, but in the end, all we often have is trash. On the other hand, there are also men who look through the mess looking for anything that can be restored. Thank you, Fred, for going through the trash searching for the men who have thrown their purpose, families, and lives away and providing them with a renewed hope of restoration, while also providing them with the tools to achieve a right relationship with their Heavenly Father. I just wonder how many times we break the heart of God with our lives? Too many to count? Thank you for putting yourself on the line for those who cannot fight for themselves. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eTactics\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e is a Godsend to me and to a generation!\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e"}
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But both Brenda and Susan write of HOPE in the midst of brokenness. Instead of allowing the pain and heartache to further injury, crush, and steal from their lives\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethese bold warriors chose to take their broken hearts \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eand\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethe raw reality of\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003etheir\u003c\/span\u003e broken dreams and place the trauma of their lives in God's Holy Hands. These brave women \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ewrite\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003evulnerably of their road to recovering stronger, healthier, restored hearts on t\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eheir\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ejourney\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es, in order\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eto\u003c\/span\u003e help others \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003erealize that a wife can get\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ehelp \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eeven\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ebefore \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eher husband chooses to get his\u003c\/span\u003e. 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Relationships - Marriage; Religion - Christian Life; Family \u0026amp; Relationships\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWaterBrook Press | Trade Paperback | October 2004 | $14.99 | 1-57856-784-X\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eABOUT THIS BOOK\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhen you experience a betrayal of intimacy in your marriage—whether through your husband’s struggle with pornography or through outright infidelity—you need a wise and understanding counselor to guide you safely through raging storms of guilt, anger, bitterness, and resentment.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis powerful guide, a companion to \u003cem\u003eThe Healing Choice,\u003c\/em\u003e walks you step by step through the process of personal healing, leading you to grow deeper in your relationship with God and equipping you to find healthy support in the company of other women who understand your pain.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAmong other things, you’ll discover how to…\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003erecognize your spouse’s emotional cycles and patterns of behavior—and your own\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003esort through your emotions in healthy and effective ways\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003egain deeper personal insights into the Bible and prayer\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eengage in a support group in ways that encourage healing\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eestablish boundaries and ascertain whether it is safe to trust again\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cspan\u003eCreated by women who understand firsthand the devastation caused by sexual betrayal, this guidebook offers the practical help you need to move beyond your pain and find hope for genuine healing.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003eWHAT READERS ARE SAYING\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Brenda Stoeker and Susan Allen have lived with anguish from the tidal wave of grief and loss. Through paralleling Brenda's painfully difficult journey of releasing her beloved \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003em\u003c\/span\u003eother to death and comparing it with the shock of a world falling apart having encountered the devastating blow from the revelation of pornography in their marriages, you'll understand how terribly shattering this \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eis\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003efor every woman whose husband's secret life has been exposed. Fred Stoeker powerfully unpacks the pain his wife was living through from \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ea\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003espouse\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e'\u003c\/span\u003es perspective\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eand we view closeup a couple walking through the stuff of life--together. But both Brenda and Susan write of HOPE in the midst of brokenness. Instead of allowing the pain and heartache to further injury, crush, and steal from their lives\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethese bold warriors chose to take their broken hearts \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eand\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethe raw reality of\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003etheir\u003c\/span\u003e broken dreams and place the trauma of their lives in God's Holy Hands. These brave women \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ewrite\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003evulnerably of their road to recovering stronger, healthier, restored hearts on t\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eheir\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ejourney\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es, in order\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eto\u003c\/span\u003e help others \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003erealize that a wife can get\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ehelp \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eeven\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ebefore \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eher husband chooses to get his\u003c\/span\u003e. They focus on what God \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003etaught\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ethem\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003eand share \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eHis\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003edream of what all women will look like on the other side of th\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eese\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egrieving journey\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e. They write, 'God's Word is like a mooring that holds you in place when the tidal grief want\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eto sweep you away.\" A restored heart is just over the hill if you stay on the path and read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Healing Choice\u003c\/em\u003e. Powerful!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e— Barbara Rosberg, of America's Family Coaches. Dr. Gary and Barb are authors of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style5\"\u003e6 Secrets to a Lasting Love\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e, co-hosts of the nationally syndicated talk show \"Dr.Gary and Barb, Your Marriage Coaches\" and nationally known public speakers.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e"}
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But both Brenda and Susan write of HOPE in the midst of brokenness. Instead of allowing the pain and heartache to further injure, crush, and steal from their lives\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethese bold warriors chose to take their broken hearts \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eand\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethe raw reality of\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003etheir\u003c\/span\u003e broken dreams and place the trauma of their lives in God's Holy Hands. These brave women \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ewrite\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003evulnerably of their road to recovering stronger, healthier, restored hearts on t\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eheir\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ejourney\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es, in order\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eto\u003c\/span\u003e help others \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003erealize that a wife can get\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ehelp \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eeven\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ebefore \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eher husband chooses to get his\u003c\/span\u003e. They focus on what God \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003etaught\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ethem\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003eand share \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eHis\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003edream of what all women will look like on the other side of th\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eese\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egrieving journey\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e. They write, 'God's Word is like a mooring that holds you in place when the tidal grief want\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eto sweep you away.\" A restored heart is just over the hill if you stay on the path and read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Healing Choice\u003c\/em\u003e. Powerful!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e— Barbara Rosberg, of America's Family Coaches. Dr. Gary and Barb are authors of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style5\"\u003e6 Secrets to a Lasting Love\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e, co-hosts of the nationally syndicated talk show \"Dr.Gary and Barb, Your Marriage Coaches\" and nationally known public speakers.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e","published_at":"2018-04-08T02:05:23-05:00","created_at":"2018-04-08T02:07:52-05:00","vendor":"Living True Ministries","type":"Books","tags":["brenda","Brenda Stoeker","Other","Susan Allen"],"price":900,"price_min":900,"price_max":900,"available":true,"price_varies":false,"compare_at_price":1299,"compare_at_price_min":1299,"compare_at_price_max":1299,"compare_at_price_varies":false,"variants":[{"id":7553758462005,"title":"Default Title","option1":"Default Title","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":false,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"The Healing Choice Guidebook","public_title":null,"options":["Default Title"],"price":900,"weight":278,"compare_at_price":1299,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"1-57856-784-X","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]}],"images":["\/\/fredstoeker.com\/cdn\/shop\/products\/Screen_Shot_2018-04-08_at_1.06.34_AM.png?v=1523171275"],"featured_image":"\/\/fredstoeker.com\/cdn\/shop\/products\/Screen_Shot_2018-04-08_at_1.06.34_AM.png?v=1523171275","options":["Title"],"media":[{"alt":null,"id":1157129830453,"position":1,"preview_image":{"aspect_ratio":0.809,"height":1144,"width":926,"src":"\/\/fredstoeker.com\/cdn\/shop\/products\/Screen_Shot_2018-04-08_at_1.06.34_AM.png?v=1523171275"},"aspect_ratio":0.809,"height":1144,"media_type":"image","src":"\/\/fredstoeker.com\/cdn\/shop\/products\/Screen_Shot_2018-04-08_at_1.06.34_AM.png?v=1523171275","width":926}],"requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_groups":[],"content":"\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003eA True Compass to Guide You Beyond the Devastation of Broken Trust\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eby Susan Allen \u0026amp; Brenda Stoeker \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFamily \u0026amp; Relationships - Marriage; Religion - Christian Life; Family \u0026amp; Relationships\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWaterBrook Press | Trade Paperback | October 2004 | $13.99 | 1-57856-784-X\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eABOUT THIS BOOK\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhen you experience a betrayal of intimacy in your marriage—whether through your husband’s struggle with pornography or through outright infidelity—you need a wise and understanding counselor to guide you safely through raging storms of guilt, anger, bitterness, and resentment.\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis powerful guide, a companion to The Healing Choice, walks you step by step through the process of personal healing, leading you to grow deeper in your relationship with God and equipping you to find healthy support in the company of other women who understand your pain.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAmong other things, you’ll discover how to…\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003erecognize your spouse’s emotional cycles and patterns of behavior—and your own\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003esort through your emotions in healthy and effective ways\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003egain deeper personal insights through the Bible and prayer\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eengage in a support group in ways that encourage healing\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eestablish boundaries and ascertain whether it is safe to trust again\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCreated by women who understand firsthand the devastation caused by sexual betrayal, this guidebook offers the practical help you need to move beyond your pain and find hope for genuine healing.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style2\"\u003eWHAT READERS ARE SAYING\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Brenda Stoeker and Susan Allen have lived with anguish from the tidal wave of grief and loss. Through paralleling Brenda's painfully difficult journey of releasing her beloved \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003em\u003c\/span\u003eother to death and comparing it with the shock of a world falling apart having encountered the devastating blow from the revelation of pornography in their marriages, you'll understand how terribly shattering this \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eis\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003efor every woman whose husband's secret life has been exposed. Fred Stoeker powerfully unpacks the pain his wife was living through from \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ea\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003espouse\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e'\u003c\/span\u003es perspective\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eand we view closeup a couple walking through the stuff of life--together. But both Brenda and Susan write of HOPE in the midst of brokenness. Instead of allowing the pain and heartache to further injure, crush, and steal from their lives\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethese bold warriors chose to take their broken hearts \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eand\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ethe raw reality of\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003etheir\u003c\/span\u003e broken dreams and place the trauma of their lives in God's Holy Hands. These brave women \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003ewrite\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003evulnerably of their road to recovering stronger, healthier, restored hearts on t\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eheir\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003ejourney\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es, in order\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eto\u003c\/span\u003e help others \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003erealize that a wife can get\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ehelp \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eeven\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ebefore \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eher husband chooses to get his\u003c\/span\u003e. They focus on what God \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003etaught\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003ethem\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003e,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003eand share \u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eHis\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003edream of what all women will look like on the other side of th\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003eese\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003egrieving journey\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e. They write, 'God's Word is like a mooring that holds you in place when the tidal grief want\u003cspan class=\"249304613-27022008\"\u003es\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eto sweep you away.\" A restored heart is just over the hill if you stay on the path and read\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Healing Choice\u003c\/em\u003e. Powerful!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e— Barbara Rosberg, of America's Family Coaches. Dr. Gary and Barb are authors of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style5\"\u003e6 Secrets to a Lasting Love\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"style4\"\u003e, co-hosts of the nationally syndicated talk show \"Dr.Gary and Barb, Your Marriage Coaches\" and nationally known public speakers.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e"}
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