I am not married, but I have been dating a man in Christian ministry for about two years. I was ready to call it quits because something just wasn’t right in the way things were going between us. Our counselor suggested your book Every Man’s Marriage, so I purchased it for my boyfriend.

But I read it first, and once I started reading I was so amazed with the content that I couldn’t put it down. I then gave it to my boyfriend, but he didn’t read it right away and put it on his shelf. Recently he went through something that caused him a lot of pain and he went out of town to take a breather and started to pray and ask for healing. Gratefully, he took the book with him and finally started reading it two months after I gave it to him.

I am overwhelmed at his response to the book. He once even called me at 3:00 a.m. to discuss the content, he was so transformed. This book has changed our lives completely. Today was the best day that I have ever had with him. I had told my sister after reading the book, “If my boyfriend would just read Every Man’s Marriage, things might finally work out between us.” It turns out, I was absolutely correct.

He has apologized for everything in the way he’d been treating me and he has even reflected on many mistakes he has made in his past relationships with women now that he understands the truth. We had studied forgiveness and he had asked me for forgiveness in the past, but Every Man’s Marriage helped him understand clearly what he needed forgiveness for, which allowed him to have a breakthrough in understanding and in his behavior towards me. It is also helping him with the marriage counseling he does with couples at his church. Thank you for being open and doing the research required to write this book. This book is truly amazing. I am so happy right now that I don’t know what to do!

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